If you are a couple in a relationship that produces more heart-ache than heart-song in your day to day life, come in and start the process now. I can work with both of you to rebuild the way you communicate with one another in a respectful, loving way. I am a strong believer in the notion that relationships are the greatest teachers we have in life. We learn more from being in relationships than in most other areas of life. However, sometimes it feels like all we are learning is how to be unhappy!
In my unique process of couples counseling, we focus on the tools of relationship and then we address the layers of pain and wounding that have accumulated over time, preventing you from having the kind of partnership that you had just assumed would be the case. So many couples never imagined they would need counseling, and yet, if you are here reading this, perhaps you don't have to be one of the couples that said these things after it was too late.
If you keep asking your partner to come to counseling with you and he or she refuses, perhaps you need to take the first step. Make an appointment and we can discuss the situation and perhaps together, you and I might find a creative solution to getting the process started. If you are both ready to make a change, we can sit down together and explore how we can support your relationship in a loving, healing, creative way.
My work when it comes to couples has been featured in the Chicago Tribune, on Yelp.com, and on The Knot.